On Saturday I attended a family reunion. It was for my mothers side of the family so I don’t carry their name. I know very little about my mothers ancestors so I was anxious to attend. As you may know, I’m very interested in family histories and getting to know my relatives.
As the reunion approached, I started thinking, “why did I sign up for this”, “I’m not going to know anyone.” I started getting nervous that I would feel stupid standing in a corner. Nevertheless, Iwas committed and wasn’t going to back out. Especially after I guilted other family members into attending.
As you might imagine, it was great. I felt very welcome, learned a lot and made new friends. Most importantly I feel more connected to that part of the family.
I have a reason for bringing this up. I have attended several reunions that had many family members missing. Especially, younger members of the family. When we have a “Winkel” reunion and young families do not attend; we all miss out. I think in some cases parents don’t see the need in their married children attending. Those 50 and older often think of a reunion as a party to see old friends. I believe reunions are much more than that. Perhaps the name should be changed. Instead of “Re-union” it should be “Union”. Perhaps the name adjustment would help younger generations see these gatherings in a different light. There is a greater purpose than seeing old friends. I believe that young families are the most important attendees.
We don’t have a reunion being planned at this point, but when we do our next one, I want to encourage everyone to attend. You will be glad you did.